Family News

October 2, 2005

Christian     By
Counseling  Ralph Crump

Twelve Attitudes for Successful Search into God's Word - Part 4

VIII. We are directed to confront our problems.
Humanistic psychology often times will excuse irrational behavior by attesting that the client is actually a victim of others. The solution then is to validate their victimization, make them believe that none of this is their fault, and then pursue ways in which the client can 'feel good' about themselves. In this sense the personal problem is never resolved nor is the shattered relationship with another mended. It bypasses responsibility and makes victimization acceptable.
But God directs us to confront and resolve our problems. When this happens not only are relationships stronger, but personal esteem is greater. Doing what is right, what God wants, always makes one stronger (Matthew 5:23-24; 18:15-20).

IX. God directs us to solve our problems immediately.
There are many ways to rationalize inactivity. 'I didn't want to say anything because I was afraid that it would hurt her feelings.' 'I didn't think it was my place to tell.' 'I figured that if we just let things cool down that we won't have to worry about the problem.' Inactivity, indeed, brings on a temporary sense of relief. But problems do not get resolved by ignoring them. And the longer it takes for one to have the courage to confront, the more 'excess baggage' is brought into the resolution process. For example, on Tuesday a brother in Christ offends me by a remark. I can't believe he said it. So I stew over the matter. Unresolved on Wednesday I continue to think poorly of my brother. I cannot concentrate at our Wednesday evening Bible study because of him. Sunday is the same way. Finally, because it seems like we aren't getting anywhere, I confront my brother seven days later. So we talk about the incident. But I bring along with the problem seven days of ill feelings. Anger and resentment are brought up over the seven days that he made me feel this way. And even if he didn't know there was a problem, all of a sudden he realizes seven days of resentment is being dumped into his lap. The original issue, no matter if it was a small thing or a serious situation, it is now multiplied out of proportion because of inactivity.

There is great wisdom behind Paul's directive: 'do not let the sun go down on your anger' (Eph. 4:26). If one has a problem with sexual temptation, the solution is to 'flee immorality' (1 Cor. 6:18) rather that to gradually let go. The Bible indicates that when we choose to dabble in evil, it will, absolutely for sure, cause damage to us (1 Cor. 15:33). When problems arise or temptations lure us we must confront them immediately. We must find God's solution and employ it immediately.  - 1 Cor. 10:13

Dalton Gardens Church of Christ

A Christ focused family committed to WINNING the Lost, MATURING the Saints, and KNITTING the Body together in love.

Welcome to the Family!
J.J. Larson would like to be recognized as a member of the Dalton Gardens church body. Be sure to welcome him into the family.

His address is:
413 N. 20th St.
Coeur d'Alene, ID 83814
Ph. #704-6768

Spiritual Leadership
Recognition is given to participants who devoted 12 weeks, 2 hours each Wednesday evening, plus numerous hours of homework to the course, 'They Smell Like Sheep: Spiritual Leadership Training' by Dr. Lynn Anderson. Each one invested significant time to reading and praying the Psalms. All participants raised their awareness of spiritual leaders as to skills desired in people servants. Leadership at any level serves best with a shared life of frequent contacts, counseling, consoling, teaching, skill development, mentoring, equipping, and empowering people for ministry. Elder participants were: David & Linda Bruner, Ralph & Anna Crump, Larry & Jean Grow, Lamont & Mary Petersen, Don & Betty Rude; Deacon participants were: Tim & Alyssa Frahm, Paul & Katrina Swaim, Steve & Kathy Taylor; Involved participants were: Lavina Dooley, Dan & Teri Dupey, Leeann Freshour, Scott & Karmen Rouse, Arrty & Jennifer Rude. Kim McIntire provided child care and Ivan Archer served as course facilitator.

Magi Project - Christmas Boxes For Kids
The Magi Project is a program that sends Christmas gifts to underprivileged children. You can make up your own box or you can turn in supplies and we will make up a box for you. Please have supplies turned in by October 23rd. Full complete boxes may be turned in by October 26th. Anyone interested in helping pack up and wrap the boxes can meet Wednesday, October 26th after Bible class in the small auditorium. For additional information see Alyssa Frahm.

BIG Thank You!
To all the ladies and teen girls who worked on the Ladies Fall Fellowship, thank you so much. You all made it a very successful day and it would not have happened without you.

Thanks to all the men and teens who helped set up tables, serve at the luncheon, and stayed to do the clean-up. You are all so appreciated!
Thanks, Mary Petersen

Thank you to all who gave money donations to cover the childcare expense for Ladies day. -Alyssa Frahm & Michelle Kish

Secret Sister Revealing Potluck
It's that wonderful time again: time at last to disclose your identity to your Secret Sister at the Secret Sister Revealing Potluck. Please note that the date for this event has been changed to Saturday, October 15th. More details to be announced. This means you still have three more weeks to encourage your Secret Sister.

Laser Tag for the Tweeners
Mark your calendars now for Laser Tag on October 22nd. All Tweeners are welcome, older children are welcome if you want to keep up with them. We can check in at 6:40 p.m. and start playing at 7:00 p.m. The cost is $13.50 per person for 4 games. We are getting one game FREE, last year same price for only 3 games. There are only 30 spots so the first to sign up at the kiosk and pay the Frahms will get you a spot. IMPORTANT! Please pay the Frahms before the night of the event! Also, if you wish we will have dinner at RED ROBIN, downtown (across from the downtown mall, not the Valley Mall) This is optional, some will meet there for dinner and then head over to Laser Quest. Please sign-up for the dinner so we know how much seating to get. Be at RED ROBIN by 5:00 p.m. to eat . If you want to meet us at Laser Quest go to 202 W. 2nd St. and be there by 6:40 p.m. See Tim or Alyssa Frahm for any questions.

Calendar of Events
Oct. 4 - 6:30 a.m. - Prayer Breakfast at JB's
Oct. 4 - 10:30 a.m. - Sew In Love Bible Study
Oct. 7-9 - Together for Togo at Richland
Oct. 7-9 - Cider Press Youth Rally at Cashmere
Oct. 15 - Secret Sister Revealing Potluck
Oct. 22 - Tweeners Dinner/Laser Tag in Spokane

Prayer Requests

Carol Fredrikson is home recovering from surgery. The surgeon is optimistic that the hole will repair itself.

Kathy Shaner is suffering from sciatica and is awaiting surgery to remove two benign tumors on her lower lumbar.

Pat Hauck has been going through tests this past week and will need bypass surgery.

Wayne Pearson is in the hospital in Spokane with breathing problems.

Sandee Atkinson, Alyssa Frahm's stepmother, has been in the hospital for back pain and will possibly need surgery.

Dana Barbarick, daughter of Judie Sanborn, has begun chemo treatments.

Teri Dupey is having pain associated with the sciatic nerve.

Brad Roberts, a former member here, has been diagnosed with MS and has asked for our prayers.

Emily Ward is recovering from surgery. Pray for her continued healing.

Phoebe Hruska is experiencing pain in her leg.

Betty Wilhoite is recovering from hand surgery.

Edna Miner is going through treatments for vertigo.

Al & Anita Poland asked to keep them in our prayers.

From Carole & Keith: Please pray for our dear friend and sister in Christ, Brenda Canham, from the Missoula church, who has inoperable cancer in three places. She has five daughters and her husband studied with and baptized my father.

10th Annual C.C.S. Craft Fair
December 3rd, 9 a.m. - 3 p.m.
If you are interested in helping with the C.C.S. craft fair or would like a booth, please contact Jamie Bradshaw at 772-7118. Applications to reserve a booth can be found on the kiosk. Please turn in your completed form to the school office or in Dan & Teri Dupey's mail box. Thank you!

Search Committee Communication
Our Youth and Family Minister search is at the stage of the elders soon offering the position to Matt Peacock. Our committee felt he is talented and creative, had prepared himself well for visit, and expressed a very' mature and healthy view of ministry. Many of congregation expressed such observations. Our teen representatives on committee, Chynna Freshour & Cameron Sims, are very complimentary of both Matt and Megan. There is disappointment hearing it is likely May before they move to Dalton Gardens. Looking at the broad picture, most buy into the statement made by Mark Borsheim'- In the perfect world we want Matt now; in the real world we will be well served to wait a few additional months to secure a person of Matt's potential. We want Matt - 'Does he want us?' is the question.  - Ivan

Leadership Training for Christ
Opportunities for all 3rd-12th graders every Sunday at 5:30 - 7:00 p.m. here at the building.

Bible Challenge - Joshua, Judges, Ruth
For all 3rd-12th graders 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Every Wednesday Night

BIBLE BUILDERS MEMORY VERSES
Children's Sunday A.M. Bible Classes

Memory Verses for the Month of October:

4 yrs. - K: Jesus answered, "Whoever drinks the water I give him will never thirst." -John 4:13-14

1st - 3rd: Jesus answered, "Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again, but whoever drinks the water I give him will never thirst." -John 4:13-14

4th - 6th: Jesus answered, "Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again, but whoever drinks the water I give him will never thirst. Indeed, the water I give him will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life."
-John 4:13-14

Kids' Harvest Party!
There will be a Harvest Party for the children (6th grade and younger) on Saturday, October 29th at 6:00 - 8:00 p.m. in the small auditorium. There will be games, prizes, treats and lots of fun!!!! Costumes, especially Bible themed costumes, are encouraged, (but nothing scary). Be watching for more details to come! Donations of candy and adult volunteers for this event would be greatly appreciated! There is a box in the foyer to drop off donated candy. See Kathy Taylor for more information.

C.C.S. School News
Practice What You Teach
Some say, "Do as I say, not as I do." I say, "Do as it says in God's word and follow only examples who model their life after Christ." I have been challenged to speak out for truth and not sit back and listen to a lie. I was inspired by an article in the Sower ("Creation or Evolution, What's the Big Deal?") and called to action by another publication, The (Scholastic) Instructor (September 2005 Issue):

Evolution claims to address the scientific and fails because it is incomplete and full of error. It fails again because it cannot address the "spirit". There are no scientific methods, experiments, etc., that can explain the "spirit". Yet, the spiritual world is in many ways like the physical world. Jesus used many physical examples to teach about spiritual principles. Planting, sowing, tending, weeding, watering, harvesting, and reaping work not only for the farmer, but also for us in the spiritual realm. When people subscribe to evolutionism, they are essentially removing themselves from any type of moralistic anchor. Because evolution says we are here merely by chance, there is no standard of truth from a source greater than man. "The survival of the fittest" is an evolutionist term that permeates a relative morality in our world. "If it feels good, do it." "Who are you to judge me?" These attitudes are directly contradictory to the absolute standards given by God concerning all areas of human behavior. Abandoning a moral anchor leaves mankind adrift on a sea of speculation, emotional coldness, and hardheartedness. The most significant problem with evolution is that it takes mankind out of the Garden of Eden and thus nullifies our need for a Redeemer. The world is slowly deteriorating, not evolving! But we are not without hope... Praise God for sending Jesus!

The Bible is clear when it predicts that the day will come when men will not put up with sound doctrine, but will turn away from truth and turn to fables. Evolution is one of these fables. Creationism or evolutionism? It really is a big deal! And so, I responded to the one sided argument presented in the "Instructor" by writing a letter to the editors and gave them a piece-of-mind from the finest scientist in all the world, the creator of the universe, the one and only true God, as he has revealed himself in his word.

Praise God for His Wonderful Creation!
In His service, Teri DuPey

K-4. K-5, 1st & 2nd Bible Verse for the week
"Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ." -1 Corinthians 11:1a

Astoria - Coat Give Away
Jim and Diane Rude at the Astoria church are asking for donations of coats and blankets to provide warmth to those in need. There is a box in the foyer for your donations. For more information see Betty Rude.

TO SERVE October 9^th, 2005

Contact Warren Brown ASAP if you are unable to serve.

Assembly Times:

Love Involvement Fellowship Evangelism Groups:

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