Family News

September 25, 2005

Christian     By
Counseling  Ralph Crump

Twelve Attitudes for Successful Search into God’s Word - Part 3

VI. We must understand the biblical dynamic of feelings vs. actions.
The humanist model of counseling seems to elevate self over anything else. The main concern of a humanistic counselor is to build self-esteem in the client. But this has already be proven to be futile. The biblical model, on the other hand, promotes right actions over anything else. If one does what is right, right according to God’s Word, the result will be good esteem, confidence, and strength (Genesis 4:7).

When one searches God’s Word to find answers to problems, he/she will find actions, activities, and servanthood. If I have wronged a brother, I must take the first step towards reconciliation (Matthew 5:23-24). If a brother has offended me, I must take the first step towards reconciliation (Matthew 18:15ff). If my brother is struggling, I must go help him with his load (Galatians 6:2).

VII. We must understand what the will of God is.
There is much confusion on what exactly is the “Will of God.” Without going into a major theological discussion at this time, I believe that “The Will of God” is that I stand holy before him (Ephesians 1:3-4). Everything God has done for me was designed to make me holy, pure, sanctified. He sent His son to die for my sins. He wants me to walk in the light for continuing sin removal (I John 1:7). Everything He did for me, and everything I am expected to do for Him, is designed so that I might be holy before him.

God does not care how much money I make. I don’t think he cares if I am rich or if I am poor. I believe that what he cares about is am I standing holy before him. Whether I am rich or poor, I can “learn the secret of getting along” by standing holy before Him (Philippians 4:12). He certainly doesn’t want me to put my trust in riches (Matthew 6:19:21).

If we can understand His Will, we can understand what God expects out of us. He cares about holy living during all stages of life, during all the ups and downs.
Today, many people feel that if their situation could change, their lives would be easier, their problems would be solved, and their self-esteem would be stronger. What God wants is for us to do what is right in the situation in which we find ourselves. We must reconcile any problems at work or at school no matter if the other party is willing or not. In any and every situation that comes our way there is a way to make it better-God’s way. We must not wait for others to “straighten up” first.

Dalton Gardens Church of Christ

A Christ focused family committed to WINNING the Lost, MATURING the Saints, and KNITTING the Body together in love.

Expertise of Matt & Megan
Matt Peacock, currently serving with the Western Hills Church of Christ in Temple, Texas, has a wealth of youth ministry experience. While an intern, he started ministries such as REEL to REAL, a movie ministry followed by a Bible study that pertained to movie just seen. Too, he has led studies entitled Across a Wire, in depth study of Sermon on the Mount and Reflections, an intense look at book of James. His mission experiences to Mexico and Thailand allowed sharing of faith in different cultures. Retreats in central Texas and Arkansas have called upon his speaking and devotional skills to equip teens to live Christ-like lives.

Megan Towery is a Texas A&M senior with studies in outdoor education. During 2005 summer she served as head female counselor at a camp in Marble Falls, Texas, which caters to inner-city kids. She has a heart for ministry and is excited about the possibilities of their being able to do ministry together. Both believe there are ways to get youth and teens serious about their faith using fun creative methods. Megan is busy planning for their December 30th wedding in Irving, Texas.

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Mark your calendar now for Saturday, October 1st! Our featured speaker will be Latayne Scott from Albuquerque, New Mexico. She will be speaking on Rahab. At the door registration will be $12.00 for adults and $5.00 for teens.

HELP NEEDED FOR THE LADIES FALL FELLOWSHIP
We would appreciate help from the men of our congregation in removing the pews in the small auditorium Wednesday night. We will also need help with the setup of tables and chairs on Thursday afternoon, and help with the clean up at 3:00 p.m. on Saturday, October 1st.

L.F.F. Baked Goods Needed
There is a sign-up sheet on the kiosk if you can help with breads, muffins, etc. for the Ladies Fall Fellowship Coffee Hour. If you have any questions please see Ruby Rude.

Laser Tag for the Tweeners
Mark your calendars now for Laser Tag on October 22nd. All Tweeners are welcome, older children are welcome if you want to keep up with them. We can check in at 6:40 p.m. and start playing at 7:00 p.m. The cost is $13.50 per person for 4 games. We are getting one game FREE, last year same price for only 3 games. We should be done around 9:30 p.m. There are only 30 spots so the first to sign up at the kiosk and pay the Frahms will get you a spot. IMPORTANT! Please pay the Frahms before the night of the event! Also, if you wish we will have dinner at RED ROBIN, downtown (across from the downtown mall, not the Valley Mall) This is optional, some will meet there for dinner and then head over to Laser Quest. Please sign-up for the dinner so we know how much seating to get. Be at RED ROBIN by 5:00 p.m. to eat . If you want to meet us at Laser Quest go to 202 W. 2nd St. and be there by 6:40 p.m. See Tim or Alyssa Frahm for any questions.

Secret Sister Revealing Potluck
It’s that wonderful time again: time at last to disclose your identity to your Secret Sister at the Secret Sister Revealing Potluck. Please note that the date for this event has been changed to Saturday, October 15th. More details to be announced. This means you still have three more weeks to encourage your Secret Sister.

Calendar of Events
Sept. 27 - 6:30 a.m. - Prayer Breakfast at JB’s
Sept. 27 - 10:30 a.m. - Sew In Love Bible Study
Sept. 23-25 - Teens Valley Rally
Sept. 25 - Guest Speaker - Matt Peacock
Sept. 31 - Set-up for Ladies Fall Fellowship
Oct. 1 - 8:30 a.m. - 3 p.m. Ladies Fall Fellowship
Oct. 7-9 - Together for Togo at Richland
Oct. 7-9 - Cider Press Youth Rally at Cashmere

Prayer Requests

Carol Fredrikson is home recovering from surgery. The surgeon is optimistic that the hole will repair itself.

Kathy Shaner is suffering from sciatica in addition to the hives. Her MRI results showed that she has two benign tumors on her lower lumbar that will need to be removed.

Dana Barbarick, daughter of Judie Sanborn, has begun chemo treatments.

Teri Dupey is having pain associated with the sciatic nerve.

Lamont Petersen is recovering from cataract surgery.

Emily Ward had surgery last Thursday. Pray for her continued healing.

Debra Dupey has a bone spur on her spine that is causing extreme pain.

Betty Wilhoite is recovering from hand surgery.

Edna Miner is going through treatments for vertigo.

Kay Robinson, a friend of Frances Criswell, is being treated for lung cancer.

Connie McCabe, a friend of Wilma Flanagan, needs spiritual and physical healing.

LeeAnn Freshour’s sister and nephew, Grace and Michael Wallin, who are both recovering from leg fractures.

Pray for physical strength for Kenneth Huseby.

Sandra Edmonds, Betty Wilhoite’s friend, has cancer and is going through chemo treatments.

Please pray for our dear friend and sister in Christ, Brenda Canham, from the Missoula church who has inoperable cancer in three places. She has five daughters and her husband studied with and baptized my father.
Love, Carole & Keith

Remember to keep in your prayers: Andrew Crump, Mike Kish, Matt Rude, Terry Morgan, who are serving in Iraq.

Pray for the Kabiye Christians and the Team of Missionaries in Togo, West Africa.

Magi Project - Christmas Boxes For Kids
The Magi Project is a program that sends Christmas gifts to underprivileged children. You can make up your own box or you can turn in supplies and we will make up a box for you. Please have supplies turned in by October 23rd. Full complete boxes may be turned in by October 26th. Anyone interested in helping pack up and wrap the boxes can meet Wednesday, October 26th after Bible class in the small auditorium. For additional information see Alyssa Frahm.

Leadership Training for Christ
Opportunities for all 3rd-12th graders every Sunday at 5:30 - 7:00 p.m. here at the building, starting tonight.

Bible Challenge - Joshua, Judges, Ruth
For all 3rd-12th graders 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Every Wednesday Night

Thank You!
How does one find the words to say thank you for all of your prayers, concern, cards, visits, calls and love, when words don’t seem adequate. Glory be to God the cancer appears to be contained to one area. I know it was God’s hand and your prayers. You are the dearest, most loving family we could ever have. Thank you. With All of our love,
Carole & Keith Fredrikson

Dear Friends of Open Arms Pregnancy Care Center,
Thank you so much for encouraging Open Arms PCC through your participation in our third annual Baby Bottle Boomerang.

We are still counting coins as bottles continue to trickle in! At this point your church family has contributed $201.31 to the fund. What a blessing!
Thanks to you, Open Arms is able to offer services free to those who may be facing an unplanned pregnancy, are seeking healing from a past abortion, or those needing parenting support and guidance.

Your generosity is making a difference in lives, some for eternity. Again , we sincerely thank you. May God bless you as you have blessed us.

Kathy Spencer, Project Coordinator

New Address:
Vanessa Borsheim
Harding University
Box 11923
Searcy, AK 72149

C.C.S. School News
What is a "normal" week? This week I was talking to my son's preschool teacher about looking forward to getting into a normal schedule. What I meant was a week without meetings, subbing, conferences, evening appointments and the like. Then I realized--that IS normal. An /abnormal/ week would be one with none of those obligations, no fighting among the kids, no illness, no late nights of grading papers, with extra time to read a book for pleasure, extra money for a family night out or date night, a week of children saying "Yes, Mother" instead of shrieking wildly and running down the stairs with nothing but one sock and a pair of swim goggles on when asked to get into the shower. Now, THAT would be amazing.

I often find myself waiting for things "settle down" before setting a time for Bible study and prayer. The sad fact is, that things probably aren't going to settle down for me, not for another 16 years or so, anyway. And I am very sure that prayer and Bible study cannot wait that long. Nor should it. It is precisely at the time when life seems to be skidding out of control that we need our anchor set in the bedrock of God's love and faithfulness the most. The only way that is going to happen is by drawing near to God. I'm going to try to remember that the next time the bathroom is once again flooded during bath time, which should be any minute now...

Kathy Taylor
3rd/4th grade teacher

CCS Shirts
We are selling Coeur d’Alene Christian School tee shirts, long sleeved tee shirts, and sweatshirts. They have Christian designs on the front and the school name on the back. If you are interested, see Jennifer Rude or visit the school office. Orders are due by September 30th.

Astoria - Coat Give Away
Jim and Diane Rude at the Astoria church are asking for donations of coats and blankets to provide warmth to those in need. There is a box in the foyer for your donations. For more information please see Betty Rude.

Kids’ Harvest Party!
There will be a Harvest Party for the children (6th grade and younger) on Saturday, October 29th at 6:00 - 8:00 p.m. in the small auditorium. There will be games, prizes, treats and lots of fun!!!! Costumes, especially Bible themed costumes, are encouraged, (but nothing scary). Be watching for more details to come! Donations of candy and adult volunteers for this event would be greatly appreciated! There is a box in the foyer to drop off donated candy. See Kathy Taylor for more information.

Garden of Prayer Request
We are breaking it down to the simple. The amount of work is too much for just a few and we need EVERYONE’s assistance so that we may be able to get other areas done before winter. Look on the board for a small part of what you can do. It’s called ‘KEEPER OF’. Many thanks to those who already have a lot on their plate, but are helping anyway! We are only asking for 20 to 30 minutes a week and in some areas just per month.

Remember to keep praying for your Secret Prayer Sister!

Who’s coming to dinner?
A sign-up on the kiosk is for everyone interested in hosting or being a guest for dinner. Each month everyone’s names who have signed up will be randomly drawn from a hat. First draw will be host, and second draw will be the guest. This will be a time to get to know each other and enjoy each other’s company, drawing us closer in our church family. Names will start to be drawn the first or second week in July. Once your names are drawn, the host will be responsible to contact the guest to find an evening that is good for both parties. For more information contact Paula Morris 664-1046 or Kim Borsheim 772-0785.

Please Note....... If you feel you might have misplaced any of your dishes from past potlucks or events, please check on the brown counter going towards the kitchen. Thanks!

Please check the Garden of Prayer board
on the easel in the foyer. Your help is needed!

Secret Sisters!
Please remember to contact your secret sister at least once per month and pray for her much more often than that! Also, be sure to check the bulletin board at the bottom of the ramp for thank you notes from your sister. There are a lot of notes that have been hanging up for a while.

Child Care Services Provided For Ladies Fall Fellowship
This year we are providing child care services for our Ladies Fall Fellowship. In providing child care services, we are hoping that more mothers with young children will be able to attend who might otherwise not be able to do so. If there are any ladies who would like to make a contribution for the child care, please see Mary Petersen. Any amount would be appreciated.

TO SERVE October 2^nd, 2005

Contact Warren Brown ASAP if you are unable to serve.

Assembly Times:

Love Involvement Fellowship Evangelism Groups:

Dalton Gardens Church of Christ
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Dalton Gardens, Idaho 83815
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