Family News

March 7, 2004

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STUFF   DAVE SHANER

Over the last few weeks, we have looked at conflict and have proposed several methods of dealing with it. As long as there is a devil, he will do what he can to drive wedges between brethren in Christ. We have seen the presence and resolution of conflict throughout the scriptures. It can be used to help us grow closer to God and each other if we will allow it to do so. It can also be destructive if we allow pride to manifest itself. Several principles have emerged thus far. Proverbs 27:17 states “Iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.” We also saw the paradox “If you want to have less conflict in your relationships, try to have more.” In other words, the more you invite openness which includes disagreement into your life, the more likely you will be to resolve problems.

One method for resolving conflict was accommodation. The accommodator retains the relationship at all cost. He/she gives in more easily for the sake of the relationship. Abraham practiced this form of resolution in his dealings with Lot. Another method is collaboration. This form says that both the relationship and the issue are important. Collaboration involves a lot of time and energy, and is more risky. So as the saying goes, choose your battles wisely. Another form of resolution involves compromise. This is best when a win/win situation is not possible. This form is appropriate when cooperation is important but time and resources are limited. It is good when finding some solution, even less than the best , is better than a complete statement. Acts l5 is an example of compromise being successfully used. The Jews were concerned that the new Gentile converts had no respect for their law (customs). After much discussion, they reached a middle ground that both parties could live with. As a result, the Jews became more accepting and the Gentiles were careful not to be so blatantly offensive to the Jews. It was a good solution for them.

We may need to seek compromise at times as well. It is not a sign of weakness, but a method to help us solve problems and promote the gospel.

Have a Great Week!!

Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” And they divided up his clothes by casting lots.

-Luke 23:34

Tweeners Progressive Dinner

March 27th we will be having a progressive dinner for the Tweeners. We will be going to 4 different homes, each hosting a part of the meal. We need you to sign-up at the Kiosk, so we know what food you will be bringing. More information to come soon. Sorry, no kids for this one. Group up together and share a babysitter.

Miqvah 2004 your help is needed!

Our annual youth rally always requires the involvement of the whole church family. #1 - Please sign up to provide housing. #2 - Call Patty Welter, Robin Utter or Sharon Nirk if you would help provide cookies or sandwiches.

It’s No Time To Go To Bed!

Nights are alive with activities at the Pepperdine Bible Lectures—late night classes, exciting praise services, drama presentations, choral groups, and, of course, the ever-popular “Coffee and Pie in the Café.” As the sun sinks into the western sea, the sky deepens to cobalt, then to ebony. The campus takes on a new look with sparkling lights under a dark star-lit sky. May 4-7, 2004, is coming soon. The Bible Lectures have something planned for everyone, from early morning until late in the evening. For a beautiful booklet, call 310-506-4270 or email Whitney.Wall@pepperdine.edu

Getting to Know You Better

Two of your shepherds with the church here are meeting on Sunday mornings at 9:00 a.m. with a different family each week in an effort to better meet your needs. They will be getting your input and offering ways in which you will be able to get involved in the work of the Lord’s church. So..... when you are called, welcome their invitation as they want to serve you. They are starting with the newer members, but if you would like to meet sooner, please contact the office.

Shepherds Corner

SEARCH THE:

Systematically ------ Luke 24:27 And beginning at Moses and all the prophets, he expounded unto them all the scriptures; the things concerning himself.

Carefully ------ Deut. 15:5 Only if thou carefully hearken unto the voice of the Lord thy God to observe to all these commandments which I command thee this day.

Reverently ------ Psalms 119:161 Princes have persecuted me without a cause: but my heart standeth in awe of thy word.

Intently ------ Proverbs 2:1, 2 My son if thou wilt receive my words and hide my commandments with thee; So that thou incline thine ear unto wisdom, and apply thine heart to understanding.

Prayerfully ------ Psalms 119:18 Open thou mine eyes that I may behold wondrous things out of thy Law.

Trustingly ------ Acts 24:14 But this I confess unto thee, that after the way which they call heresy so worship I the God of my fathers, believing all things which are written in the law and in the Prophets.

Understandingly ------ And Philip ran thither to him, and heard him read the Prophet Esaias, and said, Understandest thou what thou readest?

Retentively ------ Psalms 119:11 Thy word have I hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against thee.

Every Day ------ Acts 17:11 These were more noble than those in Thessalonica, in that they received the word with all readiness of mind, and searched the scriptures daily, whether those things were so.

Secretly ------ Psalms 91:1 He that dwelleth in the secret place of the most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty.

A new class is being offered on HOW TO UNDERSTAND THE BIBLE Sunday morning for a quarter. These lessons will help equip you with valuable insights and methods to enrich your study of the word. Please attend for further spiritual blessings. It starts in two weeks on Sunday, March 21.

-Ralph Crump for the Elders

You're Invited

Make plans on attending a special performance of the Cascade College Concert Choir also featuring voices and men’s ensemble. On Saturday, March 20 at 7:30 p.m. at the Valley Church of Christ, 17221 E. Broadway, Greenacres, WA. For more information call (509) 922-4099.

Calendar of Events

Mar. 9 - 6:30 a.m. Prayer Breakfast at JB’s

Mar. 12 - 14 - MIQVAH Youth Rally

Mar. 16 - CCS Talent Show, Science & Art Fair

Mar. 21 - New Adult Bible Classes Begin

Mar. 23 - Ladies Night Out

Mar. 26 - April 2 - Jr. & Sr. High College Trip

Mar. 27 - Tweeners Progressive Dinner

Prayer Requests

Chris Henrikson, Don and Wilma Flanagan’s grandson, is in Kuwait and will soon be in Baghdad, Iraq. Keep his safety in your prayers as he serves in the U.S. Army.

Tim & Alyssa Frahm ask prayers for the decision process in Thailand on March 10th regarding the adoption of Nuanna.

Pam Neill, Louise Tallant’s daughter, due to complications from diabetes, has been diagnosed with paralysis of the intestine. Please keep her in your prayers.

Clara Ward is dealing with a severe case of insomnia. So far medication is not helping.

Ron Dupey... continue to keep Ron in your prayers.

Pray for the Reeves and the Togo Team, that the Lord will continue to bless their work, and that the families will have good health.

Continue to remember: Tammy Heath, Chris Williams, Shirley Lindell, Clay Bronson, Mary Newman, Laura Prado, Rita Welter, Connie Savoy.

In Sympathy

Our sympathy is again with Vera Calfy and her family in the loss of her older brother, Jack who passed away last Sunday in Canada of a massive heart attack. Remember to keep their family in your prayers during this time of loss.

Thank You!

Thank you for all your prayers for my great grandson. They worked! Praise God he is out of the hospital and is at home.  -Betty Wilhoite

I wish to thank everyone for the cards and the phone calls while I was sick. I feel ok now.  -Opal Wilson

Thank you for your prayers for our 6 month old grandson, Adam, and Mae Fultz’s great grandson. He spent a week in the hospital with breathing problems. He is home now and doing very well. We thank you again for your prayers. Christian Love,
Ron & Sharon Bristow
Mae Fultz

Mike’s Memos.....

MIQVAH 2004

March 12th - 14th

That’s this coming Friday - Sunday!

As always, this wonderful weekend makes it necessary for us to get out of our comfort zones, and make a few changes. I appreciate the way the congregation gracefully handles the upsets.

PLEASE be flexible with the changed schedule for next Sunday morning’s worship time as follows:

9:30 - 10:15 Worship -1st half

Singing / Prayers / Scriptures / Lesson

Classes for Nursery - 6th grade

10:30 - 11:30 Worship - 2nd half

Singing / Prayers / Scriptures / Communion and Lesson

Wee Worship for 2 year olds - 4 year olds

Bible Hour for 5 year olds - 4th grade

*Parents/Teachers, children go directly from class to Wee worship or Bible Hour

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Leadership Training For Christ

Our kids in LTC are doing some great work which I’d like to share with you over the next few weeks. This year’s LTC theme is “Stand Firm”. The following is a Radio Minute Message by 8th grade student, Brandi Welter.

Did you ever lose your mom in a grocery store when you were a little kid? Do you remember getting that panicky feeling when you’ve looked all around and you just can’t find her? Well, that’s how it feels when you get lost and can’t find God.....when you know he’s there, and you’re pretty sure he wouldn’t , and hasn’t left you alone in the world, but you just can’t find him. You know you’ll be lost forever if you don’t find him soon, but you’re just not sure how or where to look.

Well, if that’s the case, I know how you feel because I’ve been there, and I know for a fact that others have been in that same position as well. When you’ve lost God, or even when you do have him, it’s hard to stand firm in your faith against the world. Exodus 14:13d says, “Stand firm and you will see the deliverance the Lord will bring you today.” And Psalm 33:11 says, “But the plans of the Lord stand firm forever, the purposes of his heart throughout all generations.” So remember, when you feel you have lost him, stand firm.

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Our group will be going to the LTC Convention in Phoenix in a few week. Each participant has to buy his/her own plane ticket. If you can help any of these families, please see me soon.

CCS CORNER SCHOOL NEWS

Tuesday evening was a great time of fellowship and entertainment. Many people enjoyed the benefit concert given by the exciting Christian singing group “Rescue.” We are thankful for their generosity!

2nd graders are fun and enthusiastic. They love to learn new things. They have enjoyed learning songs in Sign Language, and frequently use it while singing songs in Chapel. Chapel is a wonderful way to start the day. You are welcome to join us any day in Chapel. If you love to sing, come on a Thursday, when Mike leads Chapel in song worship. My students and I love Thursday Chapel!

Sandy Simpson, 2nd Grade

Upcoming Events:

Science & Art Fair - March 16, at 6:00 p.m.

Talent Show - March 16, at 7:00 p.m.

Candy Kickoff - March 19

CCS Auction Note

Keep the school auction in mind on store clearance items to donate - our theme is trains - ‘All Aboard!’. We can use items for Silent Auction and Live Auction as well as drawing prizes. We also can use anything depicting our theme for decorations. The date for the auction is Saturday, April 24. Remember to keep your eye on the school bulletin board in the foyer for more information. Thank you for your support!

News From Togo

The latest report from David and Becky Reeves shares the future addition of Brett and April Emerson to the Kabiye team. They are currently obtaining support and plan to join the team in 2005. The Emerson’s will add to the work force needed to guide the growing work. Currently there are fourteen small churches and four new ones expected to be born this weekend.

Currently David is working in the four villages of Kpindi, Kitogotaa, Limgao and Nyangbanda. The Christians are internalizing the things they are learning and their faith in Christ is growing every day. The Christians in Nyangbanda have built their first building are are very excited about evangelizing in their own community and beyond. They are also very eager to meet every Wednesday to learn from God’s word.

The team’s health is very good at this time. Continue to pray for God’s blessings.

Come join us for Prayer Breakfast on Tuesday mornings, at 6:30 a.m. at JB’s Restaurant on Appleway for prayer and encouragement!

TO SERVE March 14^th, 2004

Contact Warren Brown ASAP if you are unable to serve.

Assembly Times:

Other Bible Study Groups are offered at various times. Please call the office for times and places.

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